Coda Father of the groom: 'I'm not responsible!' GREG BEAN       Idon't mean to sound like I'm whining here, but I think I've led a pretty responsible life, and all that responsibility has turned me into a shadow of my former self (a larger shadow, if you're looking at the shadow of my waistline). More ... Red State/Blue State The tragedy is that Eliot could have bought a boat DAVE SIMPSON & GREG BEAN       Apolitical discussion between Red State conservative Dave Simpson - a former reporter, editor, publisher and columnist - and Greg Bean, Blue Stater and executive editor of GreaterMedia Newspapers. More ...